Question: [Monday, 13th Teves 5781] We were cooking pasta in a meat pot that had been used for cooking meat in the past 24 hours and accidentally placed on it a dairy cover that has not been used for dairy for many months. What is the law of my pasta […]
From the Rav’s Desk: Using Yad of Sefer Torah to read along in Chumash
Question: [Monday, 13th Teves 5781] It is not customary in Chabad synagogues to use the silver Yad during the reading of the Torah. May I use it for following along in the Chumash, or is it considered designated for a Sefer Torah therefore prohibited in any other use? Answer: Indeed, […]
From the Rav’s Desk: Blessing on olives during meal
Question: [Motzei Shabbos, 12th Teves 5781] Should one make a blessing of Haietz when eating olives during a meal with bread? Is it similar to all fruits that we say a Haeitz during the meal or is it different being that it is not sweet? Answer: One who eats olives […]
Attending a meal and joyous event during the year of Aveilus, past Shloshim
* This article is an excerpt from the above Sefer Shop Now *As an Amazon Associate I earn from  qualifying purchases. WhatsApp Facebook Twitter Telegram Sign up for Daily Distribution Sponsor an Episode Attending a meal and joyous event during the year of Aveilus, past Shloshim [1] *From our Sefer […]
Attending a meal and joyous event during the year of Aveilus, past Shloshim
Attending a meal and joyous event during the year of Aveilus, past Shloshim [1] *From our Sefer “The laws of Mourning” Volume 2 Chapter 23. See there for the full details of this subject! The laws of attending a meal during the year of Aveilus is similar to the laws […]
From the Rav’s Desk: 1) Blessing on olives during meal; 2) Approximating Gartel to Sefer Torah; 3) Using Yad of Sefer Torah to read along in Chumash
Question: [Motzei Shabbos, 12th Teves 5781] Should one make a blessing of Haietz when eating olives during a meal with bread? Is it similar to all fruits that we say a Haeitz during the meal or is it different being that it is not sweet? Answer: One who eats olives […]
Removing one’s shoes with one’s hands
Removing one’s shoes with one’s hands:[1] One who removes [or even touches[2]] his shoes with his hands[3] is required to wash his hands one time [immediately] afterwards. This applies even if the shoes are clean.[4] [This applies even if one only touched his shoes with his pinky.[5] If the shoes […]
Removing one’s shoes with one’s hands
Removing one’s shoes with one’s hands:[1] One who removes [or even touches[2]] his shoes with his hands[3] is required to wash his hands one time [immediately] afterwards. This applies even if the shoes are clean.[4] [This applies even if one only touched his shoes with his pinky.[5] If the shoes […]
From the Rav’s Desk: 1) making use of a pot plant on Shabbos 2) resting a siddur on a tree trunk on Shabbos 3) what to do if a hat flew onto a tree on Shabbos
Question: [Motzei Shabbos, 12th Teves 5781] Does the prohibition against making use of a tree also apply against a pot plant? Answer: Yes, it follows the same exact law as a growth from the ground, and thus if the plant contains a hard stem which if bended will break, and […]
From the Rav’s Desk: 1) making use of a pot plant on Shabbos 2) resting a siddur on a tree trunk on Shabbos 3) what to do if a hat flew onto a tree on Shabbos
Question: [Motzei Shabbos, 12th Teves 5781] Does the prohibition against making use of a tree also apply against a pot plant? Answer: Yes, it follows the same exact law as a growth from the ground, and thus if the plant contains a hard stem which if bended will break, and […]
From the Rav’s Desk: Response to attack against the custom of avoiding Torah learning on the night of Nittel
Question: [Thursday, 9th Teves 5781] With all due respect what you are saying about not learning Torah on the night of December 25th is not true. The Rabanim poskined to not learn Torah for one reason. They were afraid of pogroms being carried out against Jews learning Torah together, during […]
From the Rav’s Desk: How to separate Maaser from Lemons-Maaser Ani or Maaser Sheiyni
Question: [Monday, 6th Teves 5781] How does one separate Teruma and Maasros from a lemon tree? My main question is regarding its years of Maasros and how to calculate when it belongs to the year of Maaser Sheiyni and when it belongs to the year of Maaser Ani. Do we […]
Davening and learning near smell of spoiled food
Question: [Tuesday 7th Teves, 5781] There is a strange smell of spoiled food in our Beis Midrash, and we have tried to discover its source unsuccessfully. My question is whether it is permitted for us to continue learning and Davening in the area? The smell is very pungent. Â Answer: […]
Birchas Hatorah prior to reciting the bedtime Shema if accidentally fell asleep
Question: [Monday, 6th Teves 5781] I accidentally fell asleep in my bed in the early evening and when I woke up it was already in middle of the night and wanted to know what I should do about Birchas Hatorah. May I recite Kerias Shema Sheal Hamita without first reciting […]
From the Rav’s Desk: 1) Davening and learning near smell of spoiled food 2) Birchas Hatorah prior to reciting the bedtime Shema if accidentally fell asleep
Question: [Tuesday 7th Teves, 5781] There is a strange smell of spoiled food in our Beis Midrash and we have tried to discover its source unsuccessfully. My question is whether it is permitted for us to continue learning and Davening in the area? The smell is very pungent. Â Answer: […]
Laws relevant to when the 10th of Teves falls on Erev Shabbos
 Laws relevant to when the 10th of Teves falls on Erev Shabbos:[1] It is possible for the 10th of Teves to fall on Erev Shabbos. It is the only fast in the Jewish calendar that can fall on Erev Shabbos.[2] When the 10th of Teves falls on Erev Shabbos, […]
From The Rav’s Desk: The attitude to the “doomsday” speakers and conspiracy theorist and prophecy lecturers
Question: [Monday, 6th Teves 5781] Dear Rabbi, Â What is your opinion on all the various doomsday speakers that the Jewish world has merited to have? There are so many Frum speakers today available on the Internet that you can listen to, and some of the speakers tend to include […]
From the Rav’s Desk: Tachanun on Hei Teves
Question: [Sunday, 5th Teves 5781] Should Chabad Chassidim recite Tachanun on Hei Teves?  Answer: In general, it is customary not to say Tachanun on a day on which one celebrates a miracle that took place. However, there is no universally accepted practice of Chabad Chassidim to omit Tachanun on the fifth […]
Pesakim of Rabbanim regarding Covid vaccine-Subject to periodical update
As a service to our readers who may feel swamped by all of the news and social media material surrounding the Covid vaccine we have set up this page. On this page we will IYH embed the rulings of Poskim and leading Rabbanim regarding the Covid vaccine as their Pesakim […]
Chassidic story & lesson for Parshas Mikeitz-Rav Shmuel Munkus takes Rav Pinchas Reitzis for a broomstick ride
Chassidic story & lesson for Parshas Mikeitz In this week’s Parsha, Parshas Mikeitz, we learn of Joseph’s ascent to power, becoming the viceroy of Egypt, and receiving all authorities of the king, becoming like the king himself. Human nature would influence a person in this position to take vengeance against […]
From the Rav’s Desk: Writing a Megillah on Erev Shabbos
Question: [Thursday, 2nd Teves 5781] I was wondering if I am allowed to write a Megillah on Erev Shabbos and if so until what time? I don’t have much time during the week to do so and therefore Friday is one of my most opportune times to write it. I […]
From the Rav’s Desk: Telepathic effects between family members
Question: [Thursday, 2nd Teves 5781] Dear Rabbi, I was wondering what the perspective of Judaism is regarding if there is a spiritual connection between the members of a family aside of course for the biological connection of them being relatives. Meaning, is there a subconscious and telepathic connection between family […]
From the Rav’s Desk: 1) Telepathic effects between family members; 2) Writing a Megillah on Erev Shabbos
Question: [Thursday, 2nd Teves 5781] Dear Rabbi, I was wondering what the perspective of Judaism is regarding if there is a spiritual connection between the members of a family aside of course for the biological connection of them being relatives. Meaning, is there a subconscious and telepathic connection between family […]
The Dreidel in Halacha and Agadah
The Dreidel in Halacha and Agadah:[1]Â A. Background of the custom: It is customary to play Dreidel during Chanukah.[2] As tradition has it, this game was historically played in the times of the Greeks when it was prohibited for Jews to study Torah. They would study Torah in secret and […]
The Dreidel in Halacha and Agadah
The Dreidel in Halacha and Agadah:[1] A. Background of the custom: It is customary to play Dreidel during Chanukah.[2] As tradition has it, this game was historically played in the times of the Greeks when it was prohibited for Jews to study Torah. They would study Torah in secret and […]
From the Rav’s Desk: Having a Gentile caretaker light the candles and retracting a mistaken Psak
Question: [Tuesday, 29th Kisleiv 5781] My father lives in an assisted living complex and has tremendous difficulty moving around, including movement of his arms. I have tried to be with him for each night of Hanukkah to light the candles with him although tonight I will not be able to […]
From the Rav’s Desk: Having a Gentile caretaker light the candles and retracting a mistaken Psak
Question: [Tuesday, 29th Kisleiv 5781] My father lives in an assisted living complex and has tremendous difficulty moving around, including movement of his arms. I have tried to be with him for each night of Hanukkah to light the candles with him although tonight I will not be able to […]
From The Rav’s Desk: Source for the story of Yehudis
Question: [Monday, 28th Kisleiv 5781] I would like to know what the source for the story of Yehudis is and as to why it is not mentioned in Megilas Antiochus. Answer: The story of Yehudis is mentioned in the Rishonim, including Rashi, the Ran, the Kol Bo, and later on […]
From The Rav’s Desk: When to light if will return home late
Question: [Tuesday, 29th Kisleiv 5781] Our family is going to relatives overnight and returning the next evening. We will be arriving past midnight back home and was wondering where we should light the candles, by our relatives before we travel or at home after we arrive? Answer: This matter is […]
From The Rav’s Desk: 1) When to light if will return home late; 2) Source for the story of Yehudis
Question: [Tuesday, 29th Kisleiv 5781] Our family is going to relatives overnight and returning the next evening. We will be arriving past midnight back home and was wondering where we should light the candles, by our relatives before we travel or at home after we arrive? Answer: This matter is […]
The ideal time of Chanukah lighting and until when may one light
This article is an excerpt from To purchase this Sefer, click here When to light the Chanukah candles:[1] The end of sunset:[2] The candles are to initially[3] be lit at the end of sunset.[4] It is not to be lit prior to sunset, nor after the conclusion of sunset.[5] Some Poskim[6] […]
From the Rav’s Desk: Joining neighbors Chanukah lighting and lighting later on
Question: [Monday, 28th Kisleiv 5781] Our neighbors invited us to their home for their Hanukkah candle lighting and singing. The problem is, is that it is at the same time that everyone is supposed to light including us. May I join them for their lighting and festivities and then light […]
From the Rav’s Desk: Praying near Animal droppings
Question: [Monday, 28th Kisleiv 5781] On Shabbos in our outdoor Minyan area we found droppings of what I believe was a cat on the floor. There were also bird droppings all over the place and my question is whether it is permitted for one to Daven in such an area? […]
Must one stand while lighting the Chanukah candles?
Must one stand upon lighting the Chanukah candles? One is required to stand when saying blessings which involve commands, such as when saying the blessing over Tzitzis, and Tefillin.[1] Accordingly, one is required to stand upon saying the blessings over the Menorah lighting. However, technically, this only applies to the […]
Must one stand while lighting the Chanukah candles?
Must one stand upon lighting the Chanukah candles? One is required to stand when saying blessings which involve commands, such as when saying the blessing over Tzitzis, and Tefillin.[1] Accordingly, one is required to stand upon saying the blessings over the Menorah lighting. However, technically, this only applies to the […]
From the Rav’s Desk: 1) Praying near Animal droppings; 2) Joining neighbors Chanukah lighting and lighting later on
Question: [Monday, 28th Kisleiv 5781] On Shabbos in our outdoor Minyan area we found droppings of what I believe was a cat on the floor. There were also bird droppings all over the place and my question is whether it is permitted for one to Daven in such an area? […]
From the Rav’s Desk: Wind extinguished candles
Question: [Sunday, 27th Kisleiv 5781] After I lit my candles outside on Erev Shabbos a wind came and blew them out within ½ hour from after sunset. Did I fulfill my obligation? Answer: Initially, one may not light the candles in a windy area that can potentially extinguish the candle, […]
From the Rav’s Desk: Lighting candles on stairs
Question: [Thursday, 24th Kisleiv 5781] Our house entrance is made in the way that after you open the door and walk in, there are a few steps going down into the home, into the living room area where the couch is and where we would like to light the Hanukkah […]
From the Rav’s Desk: 1) Lighting candles on stairs; 2) Wind extinguished candles
Question: [Thursday, 24th Kisleiv 5781] Our house entrance is made in the way that after you open the door and walk in, there are a few steps going down into the home, into the living room area where the couch is and where we would like to light the Hanukkah […]
Lighting a Public Menorah
Lighting a Public Menorah:[1] The Rebbe’s directed the arrangement of public Menorah lightings, in order to publicize the miracle of Chanukah.[2] However, the participants do not fulfill their obligation with such lighting and thus should be informed that they must still light in their homes.[3] Is a blessing recited?[4] Some […]
Lighting a Public Menorah
Lighting a Public Menorah:[1] The Rebbe’s directed the arrangement of public Menorah lightings, in order to publicize the miracle of Chanukah.[2] However, the participants do not fulfill their obligation with such lighting and thus should be informed that they must still light in their homes.[3] Is a blessing recited?[4] Some […]
Chassidic story & lesson for Parshas Vayeishev: A dilemma in “Kiruv”; compromise on Jewish law or face limited success and influenceÂ
Chassidic story & lesson for Parshas Vayeishev In this week’s Parsha, Parshas Vayeishev, we learn about the sale of Joseph into slavery in Egypt, and his outstanding righteousness that he retained even in this most corrupt society and despite being distanced from his father and family. Nobody would’ve ever discovered […]
The parent’s bedroom
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The prohibition of Zera Levatala
Buy Now-Paperback/Kindle eBook This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Donate Appendix 4: The prohibition of Zera Levatala[1] Throughout this book, the concept of Zera Levatala was mentioned in various relevant areas. Occasionally it was mentioned in reference to prohibited actions, while in other times it was mentioned in […]
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Beilas Mitzvah-The night of the wedding
This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! Appendix 3: Beilas Mitzvah-The night of the wedding[1] It is beyond the scope of this Sefer to delve into the laws of Niddah, and laws of Hadracha, relevant to the first night, and IYH a full treatise on the subject […]
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The Mitzvah of Peru Urevu
*The article below is an excerpt from the above Sefer *As an Amazon Associate I earn from  qualifying purchases. Buy on Apple Books Buy on Amazon-Paperback/Kindle eBook Facebook Twitter LinkedIn Donate The Mitzvah of Peru Urevu 1. The Mitzvah of Peru Urevu: A. The general command to get married and […]
Chapter 8: Tevilas Ezra for a Baal Keri
*The article below is an excerpt from the above Sefer *As an Amazon Associate I earn from  qualifying purchases. Buy on Apple Books Buy on Amazon-Paperback/Kindle eBook Facebook Twitter LinkedIn Donate Chapter 8: Tevilas Ezra for a Baal Keri[1] Immersing in a Mikveh after intercourse 1. The Mitzvah and obligation […]
The order after intercourse
This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! 9. After intercourse: Standing up after intercourse:[1] A man should not stand on his feet immediately after [ejaculating during] intercourse, as doing so can be dangerous. Rather, one is to wait [and sit or lie down] for a short period […]
The Ba’al Nefesh form of intimacy-With fear and trepidation
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The intercourse itself
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Preparations done prior to the actual intercourse
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Preparations done prior to the start of intimacy
This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! Preparations done prior to the start of intimacy:[1] Ask her if she went to Mikveh:[2] On a night that the wife has immersed in Mikveh, prior to engaging in any intimacy, the husband is obligated to verify from his wife […]
Piyus [i.e. Foreplay] – Appeasing and showing love to one’s wife prior to intimacy
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Preparations done on the day of intimacy
This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! Preparations done on the day of intimacy: Complimenting on the day of scheduled intimacy/Mikveh:[1] It is of upmost importance for the couple to be emotionally prepared for intimacy when it is scheduled to take place that day, such as on […]
The Kavanos/Intentions that one is to have during marital relations
This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! The Kavanos/Intentions that one is to have during marital relations:[1] See Chapter 1 Halachas 8-12 for further details on this subject. Introduction: Naturally, intercourse involves within it some of the most powerful human lusts known to mankind. This natural lust […]
Privacy – Not revealing the day of Mikveh and times of intimacy
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May a couple engage in affectionate touch [i.e. hugging, kissing, etc.] in front of their children?
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May the husband wear perfume or cologne:
*The article below is an excerpt from the above Sefer *As an Amazon Associate I earn from  qualifying purchases. Buy on Apple Books Buy on Amazon-Paperback/Kindle eBook Facebook Twitter LinkedIn Donate May the husband wear perfume or cologne: Men are not to wear perfume or cologne when they are going […]
Pictures in the marital bedroom
This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! Pictures in the marital bedroom:[1] All pictures of people are to be removed from the marital bedroom prior to intimacy.[2] However, pictures of the couple may remain in the room. May pictures of Tzadikim remain in a room where one […]
Music – Listening to music during intimacy:
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Intimacy during times that actual intercourse is not intended to take place
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The surface – On bed versus on the floor
This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! The surface – On bed versus on the floor:[1] The intercourse is to take place on a bed and not on the floor or ground. [This applies even if there is a carpet on the floor, or one spreads a […]
From the Rav’s Desk: Playing Dreidel on Shabbos, and may one use beans
Question: [Thursday, 24th Kisleiv 5781] Is it permitted on Shabbos to play Dreidel? Also, may I play using beans that we designated for this purpose or are they considered Muktzah?  Answer: This is a complex question, as the playing of Dreidel on Shabbos can involve a “gambling” prohibition, and […]
From the Rav’s Desk: Playing Dreidel on Shabbos, and may one use beans
Question: [Thursday, 24th Kisleiv 5781] Is it permitted on Shabbos to play Dreidel? Also, may I play using beans that we designated for this purpose or are they considered Muktzah? Answer: This is a complex question, as the playing of Dreidel on Shabbos can involve a “gambling” prohibition, and when […]
Talking restrictions
This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! Talking restrictions:[1] Refined speech:[2] A man is not to be lightheaded with his wife [to do with her immoral or immodest activity] and is not to dirty his mouth with words of vanity [i.e. Nivul Peh]. This applies even if […]
Sanctification during intimacy: The Mitzvah; How, Who, When
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Intimacy in a room with Sefarim or Tashmishei Kedusha [i.e. Tefillin, Mezuzah, Sefer Torah]
This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! 13. Intimacy in a room with Sefarim or Tashmishei Kedusha [i.e. Tefillin, Mezuzah, Sefer Torah]:[2] A. The general rule:[3] It is forbidden to have relations in a room that contains Tefillin or Sefarim [or a Meuzah[4]], unless the Sefarim or […]
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Intimacy in a room that has a light on
This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! Intimacy in a room that has a light on:[1] A. The law: It is forbidden to have intercourse [i.e. penetration] in the presence of the light of a candle [or any other source of light, whether it be an electric […]
Chapter 5: Cases of prohibition and avoidance-Part 3
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Areas restricted of intimacy: Public area, bathroom, porch, shul, beis Midrash
This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! 15. Areas in which intercourse may not take place:[1] Public areas:[2] It is forbidden to have relations in [public areas, such as] the marketplace, streets, gardens, and orchards [or beaches].[3] Rather, intimacy is only permitted to be done inside a […]
Guests – Guest couples having intimacy in the home of a host
This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! 12. Guests – Guest couples having intimacy in the home of a host:[1] It is forbidden for a guest to engage in marital relations in the home of his host.[2] However, if the host has designated a private home [or […]
Living and having intimacy by home of in-laws
This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! May a couple have intimacy in the home of their in-laws? Yes. A couple who is staying as a guest in the home of his or her parents may engage in intimacy, so long as they have their own room […]
Nursing child awake during intimacy
This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! 11. Nursing child awake:[1] One who has a nursing child is not to have marital relations while the child is awake. [Some Poskim,[2] however, explain that this is simply good advice and is not an actual prohibition.] ___________________________________ [1] M”A […]
Baby on bed during intimacy
This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! 10. Baby on bed:[1] One may not have intercourse on a bed that a baby is sleeping on, even if the child is less than a year old and is sleeping on the end of the bed. [Some Poskim[2] learn […]
Being alone in the room during intimacy
This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! 9. Privacy – The law if there are other people in the room:[1] Person is awake: It is forbidden to have relations in front of any human, even a child [or slave[2]], who is awake and is old enough to […]
Intimacy after bathing
This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! 4. After excessive bathing, spa treatment or Jacuzzi:[1] One is not to have relations on a day of [excessive[2]] bathing [such as during a spa treatment in which one spent excessive time in a jacuzzi, steam room or sauna]. [Accordingly, […]
Intimacy after leaving the bathroom
This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! 3. After leaving the bathroom:[1] One who leaves a bathroom is not to have marital relations [for a certain period of time, as explained next].[2] [While this adherence especially applies if one can become pregnant from the intimacy, or is […]
Intimacy when feeling hungry or satiated
This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! 2. When feeling hungry or satiated:[1] [Due to medical reasons,[2] as well as due to negative effects on a child born from such a union] one is not to have intercourse when he [or she] is hungry or satiated [right […]
Intimacy when deliberating divorce
This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! J. #8 Bnei Gerushas Haleiv-If he plans to divorce her:[1] One may not have relations with his wife if he intends to divorce her [in the near future[2]]. This applies even if he does not hate her [but rather still […]
Intimacy when drunk
This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! I. #7 Bnei Shichrus-Drunk:[1] One may not have relations with his wife if either of them[2] are drunk.[3] [This applies when one of them drank alcohol to the point that their mind became fuzzy and they cannot think straight.[4] However, […]
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Bnei Teisha Midos-Force; angry; mourning; other woman; drunk; divorce; sleeping; brazen
This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! 1. Bnei Teisha Midos-Force; angry; mourning; other woman; drunk; divorce; sleeping; brazen:[1] A. The general rule: The Sages related nine different situations for which marital relations are to be abstained from [and is forbidden[2]]. Lack of doing so can lead […]
41st day and 81st day after birth
This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! 9. 41st day and 81st day after birth:[1] According to the Talmud, one is to abstain from intimacy on the 41st day after the birth of a boy, and the 81st day after the birth of a girl.[2] The Poskim[3] […]
Day 90 of pregnancy
This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! 8. Day 90 of pregnancy:[1] It is forbidden to have intercourse on day 90 of pregnancy, due to danger to the fetus as it can cause miscarriage.[2] Nonetheless, in today’s times, one is not required to be stringent in this […]
Day of travel
This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! 7. Day of travel:[1] One is not to have relations on a day of travel, whether it be the day of leaving on a journey or the day of returning from a journey.[2] [This refers to one who is traveling […]
Times of famine/war/natural disaster/pandemics
This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! 6. Times of famine/war/natural disaster/pandemics:[1] It is forbidden[2] to have relations with one’s wife during years of famine [even if one is wealthy and personally has food[3]]. [The mystical reason for this is because during a time of suffering, the […]
May one have marital relations on Nittel Nacht?
Check out our Amazon Sefarim Shop This article is an excerpt from our Sefer WhatsApp Telegram Facebook Twitter Sponsor an Article 5. Nittel Nacht [i.e. 25th December]:[1] Nittel is on the 25th of December. The customs of Nittel apply from the night before the 25th, which is the night of […]
During Mourning
This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! 4. During Mourning: A. Marital relations during Aninus:[1] It is forbidden for an Onen to have marital intercourse during his state of Aninus. This applies even on Shabbos and Yom Tov, and certainly during the week. Q&A May the […]
Fast days
This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! 3. Fast days: The night of the fast:[1]  It is permitted to have marital relations on a fast day, other than Tisha B’Av.[2] [Nevertheless, a Ba’al Nefesh is to be stringent to not have marital relations on the fast day, […]
The nine days-Tisha B’Av:
This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! 2. The nine days-Tisha B’Av:[1] A. The nine days: Some Poskim[2] rule that one is to avoid intimacy between Rosh Chodesh Menachem Av and the 11th of Av [not including the 11th of Av]. Other Poskim,[3] however, rule that it […]
Yomim Tovim-Holidays of avoidance
This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! 1. Yomim Tovim-Holidays of avoidance:[1] A. Pesach: 1st night of Pesach:[2] It is forbidden to perform marital relations on the 1st night of Pesach. [This applies even if it occurs on Shabbos.[3]] 2nd night of Pesach in Diaspora: Some Poskim[4] […]
Protected: Chapter 4: Days of avoidance
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