From the Rav’s Desk: 1) making use of a pot plant on Shabbos 2) resting a siddur on a tree trunk on Shabbos 3) what to do if a hat flew onto a tree on Shabbos

Question: [Motzei Shabbos, 12th Teves 5781] Does the prohibition against making use of a tree also apply against a pot plant? Answer: Yes, it follows the same exact law as a growth from the ground, and thus if the plant contains a hard stem which if bended will break, and […]

From the Rav’s Desk: 1) Davening and learning near smell of spoiled food 2) Birchas Hatorah prior to reciting the bedtime Shema if accidentally fell asleep

Question: [Tuesday 7th Teves, 5781] There is a strange smell of spoiled food in our Beis Midrash and we have tried to discover its source unsuccessfully. My question is whether it is permitted for us to continue learning and Davening in the area? The smell is very pungent.   Answer: […]

The Dreidel in Halacha and Agadah

The Dreidel in Halacha and Agadah:[1] A. Background of the custom: It is customary to play Dreidel during Chanukah.[2] As tradition has it, this game was historically played in the times of the Greeks when it was prohibited for Jews to study Torah. They would study Torah in secret and […]

Lighting a Public Menorah

Lighting a Public Menorah:[1] The Rebbe’s directed the arrangement of public Menorah lightings, in order to publicize the miracle of Chanukah.[2] However, the participants do not fulfill their obligation with such lighting and thus should be informed that they must still light in their homes.[3] Is a blessing recited?[4] Some […]

Chassidic story & lesson for Parshas Vayeishev: A dilemma in “Kiruv”; compromise on Jewish law or face limited success and influence 

Chassidic story & lesson for Parshas Vayeishev In this week’s Parsha, Parshas Vayeishev, we learn about the sale of Joseph into slavery in Egypt, and his outstanding righteousness that he retained even in this most corrupt society and despite being distanced from his father and family. Nobody would’ve ever discovered […]

The parent’s bedroom

*The article below is an excerpt from the above Sefer *As an Amazon Associate I earn from  qualifying purchases. Buy on Apple Books Buy on Amazon-Paperback/Kindle eBook Facebook Twitter LinkedIn Donate Appendix 6: The parent’s bedroom 1. Which direction should the beds face and should one face upon sleeping?[1] From […]

The prohibition of Zera Levatala

Buy Now-Paperback/Kindle eBook This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Donate Appendix 4: The prohibition of Zera Levatala[1] Throughout this book, the concept of Zera Levatala was mentioned in various relevant areas. Occasionally it was mentioned in reference to prohibited actions, while in other times it was mentioned in […]

The Mitzvah of Peru Urevu

*The article below is an excerpt from the above Sefer *As an Amazon Associate I earn from  qualifying purchases. Buy on Apple Books Buy on Amazon-Paperback/Kindle eBook Facebook Twitter LinkedIn Donate The Mitzvah of Peru Urevu 1. The Mitzvah of Peru Urevu: A. The general command to get married and […]

Chapter 8: Tevilas Ezra for a Baal Keri

*The article below is an excerpt from the above Sefer *As an Amazon Associate I earn from  qualifying purchases. Buy on Apple Books Buy on Amazon-Paperback/Kindle eBook Facebook Twitter LinkedIn Donate Chapter 8: Tevilas Ezra for a Baal Keri[1] Immersing in a Mikveh after intercourse 1. The Mitzvah and obligation […]

The order after intercourse

This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! 9. After intercourse: Standing up after intercourse:[1] A man should not stand on his feet immediately after [ejaculating during] intercourse, as doing so can be dangerous. Rather, one is to wait [and sit or lie down] for a short period […]

May the husband wear perfume or cologne:

*The article below is an excerpt from the above Sefer *As an Amazon Associate I earn from  qualifying purchases. Buy on Apple Books Buy on Amazon-Paperback/Kindle eBook Facebook Twitter LinkedIn Donate May the husband wear perfume or cologne: Men are not to wear perfume or cologne when they are going […]

Pictures in the marital bedroom

This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! Pictures in the marital bedroom:[1] All pictures of people are to be removed from the marital bedroom prior to intimacy.[2] However, pictures of the couple may remain in the room. May pictures of Tzadikim remain in a room where one […]

Talking restrictions

This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! Talking restrictions:[1] Refined speech:[2] A man is not to be lightheaded with his wife [to do with her immoral or immodest activity] and is not to dirty his mouth with words of vanity [i.e. Nivul Peh]. This applies even if […]

Nursing child awake during intimacy

This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! 11. Nursing child awake:[1] One who has a nursing child is not to have marital relations while the child is awake. [Some Poskim,[2] however, explain that this is simply good advice and is not an actual prohibition.] ___________________________________ [1] M”A […]

Intimacy after bathing

This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! 4. After excessive bathing, spa treatment or Jacuzzi:[1] One is not to have relations on a day of [excessive[2]] bathing [such as during a spa treatment in which one spent excessive time in a jacuzzi, steam room or sauna]. [Accordingly, […]

Intimacy after leaving the bathroom

This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! 3. After leaving the bathroom:[1] One who leaves a bathroom is not to have marital relations [for a certain period of time, as explained next].[2] [While this adherence especially applies if one can become pregnant from the intimacy, or is […]

Intimacy when drunk

This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! I. #7 Bnei Shichrus-Drunk:[1] One may not have relations with his wife if either of them[2] are drunk.[3] [This applies when one of them drank alcohol to the point that their mind became fuzzy and they cannot think straight.[4] However, […]

Day 90 of pregnancy

This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! 8. Day 90 of pregnancy:[1] It is forbidden to have intercourse on day 90 of pregnancy, due to danger to the fetus as it can cause miscarriage.[2] Nonetheless, in today’s times, one is not required to be stringent in this […]

Day of travel

This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! 7. Day of travel:[1] One is not to have relations on a day of travel, whether it be the day of leaving on a journey or the day of returning from a journey.[2] [This refers to one who is traveling […]

During Mourning

This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! 4. During Mourning: A. Marital relations during Aninus:[1] It is forbidden for an Onen to have marital intercourse during his state of Aninus. This applies even on Shabbos and Yom Tov, and certainly during the week.   Q&A May the […]

Fast days

This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! 3. Fast days: The night of the fast:[1]  It is permitted to have marital relations on a fast day, other than Tisha B’Av.[2] [Nevertheless, a Ba’al Nefesh is to be stringent to not have marital relations on the fast day, […]

The nine days-Tisha B’Av:

This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! 2. The nine days-Tisha B’Av:[1] A. The nine days: Some Poskim[2] rule that one is to avoid intimacy between Rosh Chodesh Menachem Av and the 11th of Av [not including the 11th of Av]. Other Poskim,[3] however, rule that it […]

Yomim Tovim-Holidays of avoidance

This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy Now! 1. Yomim Tovim-Holidays of avoidance:[1] A. Pesach: 1st night of Pesach:[2] It is forbidden to perform marital relations on the 1st night of Pesach. [This applies even if it occurs on Shabbos.[3]] 2nd night of Pesach in Diaspora: Some Poskim[4] […]