The Shabbos before the Bar Mitzvah

5. The Shabbos before the Bar Mitzvah:[1] On the Shabbos before the Bar Mitzvah, some communities are accustomed to give him the Aliyah of Maftir.[2] This is not the Chabad custom. ______________________________________________________________________ [1] See Nitei Gavriel chapter 6 [2] Levushei Mordechai 1:37; See Tzitz Eliezer 7:1; Piskeiy Teshuvos 282:8 and […]

Preparing for the Bar Mitzvah

3. Preparing for the Bar Mitzvah: [1] A. Learning Torah prior to the Bar Mitzvah:[2] The period prior to the Bar Mitzvah is an extremely auspicious time for the child to be engaged in assiduous Torah learning and scrupulous fulfillment of Mitzvos. What sections of Torah to focus on:[3] The […]

Men taking a shower after Mikveh

Taking a shower after Mikveh:[1] From the letter of the law, it is permitted for a man to shower after immersing in the Mikveh[2], although some are stringent not to do so.[3] However, according to all it is permitted to momentarily go under the shower for a quick rinse which […]

Shaking hands with a woman

Shaking hands: Hand shaking is a means of formal communication between two parties and signifies friendship, endearment, and business relations. Shaking the hands of the opposite gender poses the question of whether doing so transgresses the prohibition against showing affectionate touch towards the opposite gender. The following is the ruling […]

Aseres Hadibros: Standing, How to read

Check out our Amazon Sefarim Shop * This article is an excerpt from the above book WhatsApp Telegram Facebook Twitter Sponsor an Article Standing during Aseres Hadibros:[1] It is an old custom amongst many communities to stand during the reading of Aseres Hadibros.[2] Some Poskim[3], however, rule one is not […]

May one use a door knocker on Shabbos?

May one use a door knocker on Shabbos?[1] Background-Making noise with an item on Shabbos: The sages prohibited one from sounding music on Shabbos, due to the crazy one way come to fix musical instruments.[2] Included in this prohibition is sounding any sound with the intent of making it into […]

Kadima Bebrachos

The Laws of Precedence/Kadima by blessings[1]   Introduction: Amongst the laws of blessings on foods are included laws regarding precedence. The laws of precedence apply when one has two different foods in front of him and he plans to eat from both foods. These laws dictate which food should be […]

Using secular dates-Year, month, weekdays

This article is an excerpt from our Sefer Buy me on Amazon.com May one use the secular dates verbally or in writing?[1] The years: Some Poskim[2] rule it is Biblically forbidden to write secular dates.[3] Other Poskim[4] however rule it is permitted.[5] Practically, the custom is to be lenient as did many […]

Saying Shehechiyanu on a new home:

Saying Shehechiyanu on a new home:[1] One who built or purchased[2] a new home is to say the blessing of Shehechiyanu. [Nevertheless, the widespread custom amongst many today is not to say it.[3]] ___________________________________________________________________ [1] Admur Seder 12/2; Luach 11/15; Michaber 223/3; Mishneh Brachos 541 [2] Admur ibid in Seder […]

Tefillin wearing checklist [Chabad custom]

Tefillin wearing checklist [Chabad custom]  *See our upcoming corresponding Sefer for sources, soon to be published on our website  General Preparation Immerse in a mikvah. This especially applies if one is a Baal Keri. [Hiddur] Some are accustomed to wash the skin and hair of the head and bicep before […]

?האם מותר לגברים לעשות מלאכה אחרי זמן הדלקת נרות

עיין כאן לכתבה העיקרית באנגלית האם מותר לגברים לעשות מלאכה אחרי זמן הדלקת נרות?  מותר לגברים אפילו לכתחילה לעשות מלאכה אחרי זמן הדלקת נרות עד קרוב .לשקיעה. אכן מי שמקדים לקבל שבת בזמן הדלקת נרות-אשרי לו הרחבה ?האם מותר לגברים לעשות מלאכה אחרי זמן הדלקת נרות מותר לגברים אפילו לכתחילה לעשות […]

Spitting by Aleinu Lishabeiach

Check out our Amazon Sefarim Shop This Halacha is an excerpt from our Sefer WhatsApp Telegram Facebook Twitter Sponsor an Article Spitting by Aleinu:[1] No doubt, one of the more peculiar customs, attributed to Chabad Chassidim, is the act of spitting that we perform during Aleinu. Many are not aware […]

The Nusach of Meiyn Shalosh by products of Eretz Yisrael: Gafnah, Peiroseha, Michyasa

Al Peiroseha/Gafnah/Michyasa-The Nussach of Meiyn Shalosh when eating seven species fruits/Mezonos/wine from Eretz Yisrael or within Eretz Yisrael:[1] In the Diaspora, one who eats fruits of the seven Minim [i.e. dates, figs, pomegranates, olives, grapes] concludes the blessing with the words “Al Ha’aretz Veal Hapeiros.” However, in Eretz Yisrael, one […]

Taking advice from one’s wife-A Torah perspective: Should a man listen to his wife’s suggestions and consult her about personal matters?

Taking advice from one’s wife-A Torah perspective: Should a man listen to his wife’s suggestions and consult her about personal matters? It is not uncommon for some husbands to feel a sense of masculine pride which prevents them from being naturally open to taking advice from their wives, especially in […]

Chapter 3: Reading Shnayim Mikra

Chapter 3: Reading Shnayim Mikra   Summary of the laws of Shnayim Mikra which are elaborated below: One is to read Shnayim Mikra Echad Targum on Erev Shabbos [immediately] after midday. Prior to reading Shnayim Mikra one is to cut his nails. One reads each Pasuk twice and then immediately […]

Chapter 1: The Shabbos preparations

This article is an excerpt from our Sefer   Buy now on Amazon.com Chapter 1: The Shabbos preparations 1. A Mitzvah and obligation upon each person:[1] Best to personally perform all the Shabbos preparations: Even if one has many servants he is to endeavor to personally prepare [all[2] or as much […]