From the Rav’s Desk: 1) Replacing your Zabla judge; 2) Bnei Bris in Bentching

  1. Question: [Wednesday, 16th Kisleiv 5781]

I have a monetary dispute with a friend, and we decided to take her to a Zabla Beis Din. After I chose my judge I had a change of heart and would like to choose someone else instead. May I do so?

Answer:

It depends on what stage of progress you’re in, in the court case. Once the arbitration document has been written and signed by the two sides, or a Kinyan has already been made, then one can no longer retract and replace his chosen judge. Prior to this point, you may.

Sources: See Michaber and Rama C.M. 13:2; Tur 13; Bava Metzia 20a

  1. Question: [Wednesday, 16th Kisleiv 5781]

I work in an office with goyim and would like to know what I should say in Bentching when it comes to the parentheses (Bnei Bris) by the Harachaman’s. Should I say it because there are Gentiles around or should I not say it being that we’re not eating together?

 

Answer:

You are to recite Bnei Bris whenever there other Gentiles in the room irrelevant of whether they have joined you for your meal.

Sources: See Admur 189:4; Siddur Admur; M”A 189:1; Taz Y.D. 232:14; Kol Bo 25; Mateh Moshe 335; Kaf Hachaim 189:8-9; Piskeiy Teshuvos 189:4

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