Daily Halacha: Hilchos Shabbos Family Table Learning: 🍷 Preparing the Kiddush Cup – Kos Shel Bracha

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🍷 Preparing the Kiddush Cup – Kos Shel Bracha

Using a cup for Kiddush and other mitzvos is not just about the wine β€” the cup itself must be prepared properly and respectfully.

πŸ“œ Rinsing the Kos Shel Bracha

The cup used for Kos Shel Bracha β€” such as for:
β€’ Kiddush
β€’ Havdala
β€’ Birchas Hamazon
β€’ Chuppah
β€’ Bris Milah

β€” requires proper preparation before use.

πŸ”Ή Hadacha & Shetifa

  • Hadacha – washing the inside of the cup
    β€’ Shetifa – washing the outside of the cup

βœ… From the letter of the law:
Both should be done to ensure the cup is clean and presentable.

🧽 Cleaning with a Cloth

❓ Is water required?
Not necessarily.

βœ… An alternative method:
β€’ Thoroughly wipe the cup with a cloth or napkin
β€’ Ensure it appears clean and dignified both inside and outside

⚠️ According to Kabbalah:
The cup should specifically be rinsed with water.

πŸ•―οΈ In a time of need:
If water is unavailable, wiping with a napkin suffices.

πŸ“Œ Chassidic practice:
The Rebbe was observed wiping his Kiddush cup with a napkin before Kiddush during Shabbos farbrengens.

✨ If the Cup Is Already Clean

If the cup is:
β€’ Clean inside and outside
β€’ Contains no food remnants

βœ… It does not require further rinsing or wiping.

⚠️ According to Kabbalah:
Even a clean cup should still receive Hadacha and Shetifa with water.

🍷 If the Cup Contains Leftover Wine

If the cup looks clean but contains leftover wine:

βœ… From the letter of the law:
β€’ No rinsing is required unless the wine contains food crumbs
β€’ For example: wine that bread or other food was dipped into

✨ Additional opinions:
β€’ Some Poskim recommend rinsing even if no crumbs are present
β€’ According to Kabbalah, rinsing is required in all cases

πŸ” Reusing the Cup During the Same Meal

πŸ“Œ Example: Pesach Seder

βœ… If the cup was rinsed before Kiddush and remained clean:
β€’ It does not need to be rinsed again for the second Kos

❗ Before using the cup for Birchas Hamazon:
β€’ One must ensure there is no leftover wine containing food
β€’ If there is β€” the cup must be rinsed or wiped clean

πŸ•―οΈ Chassidic practice:
β€’ The Rebbe did not rinse the cup for the second Kos at the Seder
β€’ However, he did rinse the cup before Birchas Hamazon
β€’ This was because the cup had become visibly dirty (e.g., from charoses)

βœ… Summary

  • A Kos Shel Bracha should be clean inside and outside
    β€’ Cleaning may be done with water or by wiping with a cloth
    β€’ If the cup is already clean, no further cleaning is required
    β€’ Leftover wine alone does not invalidate the cup
    β€’ Wine containing food remnants does require cleaning

✨ According to Kabbalah:
The cup should always be rinsed with water before use, even if clean.

❓ Q & A

🍷 If multiple people make Kiddush using the same cup, must it be rinsed between each person?

βœ… From the letter of the law:
No β€” it is not required.

✨ Some opinions:
β€’ It is proper to rinse, since the cup contains another person’s leftovers
β€’ Others say this is only necessary for one who is particular about this

πŸ•―οΈ Chabad Custom:
β€’ There is no fixed custom
β€’ Many do not rinse between people
β€’ Some Chassidim are careful to do so

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