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Due to the halachic restrictions regarding wearing red clothing, you should likewise not wear red shoes. Red is considered a color associated with promiscuity and gentile practices, and wearing it transgresses “Lo Seilchu Bechukos HaGoyim” according to many Poskim. It is also viewed as immodest, especially for women, as red naturally draws attention and can lead to inappropriate thoughts.
- Men: While some authorities are lenient today for men, arguing that red is no longer a distinctively gentile or promiscuous color, the practical custom among G-d-fearing Jews is to avoid wearing any red garments—including shoes.
- Women: The restriction is even stronger for women due to reasons of tznius (modesty) and the traditional custom in all frum homes to avoid red clothing entirely.
Summary:
Both men and women should avoid wearing red-colored shoes. For women, this is especially important due to modesty concerns. If the shoes are only partially red or a shade like maroon or pink, some Poskim are lenient, but any color that draws undue attention should be avoided.
Sources:
See our Sefer “Topics in Practical Halacha” Vol. 3, under the Yoreh Deah section, Or, our Sefer “Shemiras Henfesh Encyclopedia” Volume 2, under the Title “Red”
OR Here
https://shulchanaruchharav.com/halacha/wearing-red-colored-clothing/
Question
May I suck on Zyn nicotine pouches on a fast day, and in general do they require a blessing upon placing them in one’s mouth? Many of them come with a flavorful taste, and one ends up swallowing that taste in saliva, similar to gum.
Answer
Based on the fact that these pouches have flavor and that the taste is swallowed with saliva, a blessing of “Shehakol” should be recited prior to placing them in the mouth, similar to gum.
At the same time, it is prohibited to place these pouches in one’s mouth on a fast day, since they have a flavor that is swallowed and are considered like food. This is in line with the rule that even tasting food on a fast day established by the Sages, such as the Fast of the 10th of Tevet, is forbidden.
Sources:
See regarding the recital of the blessing of Shehakol over gum: Beir Moshe 2:12; Kinyan Torah 5:17; Yabia Omer 7:33; Piskeiy Teshuvos 202:34; See Chayeh Adam 49:4
See regarding the prohibition of even tasting food on a fast day: Rama 567:1; Admur 612:7; Rama 567:1; Tosafus; Hagahos Maimanis; Terumas Hadeshen 158; Levush 567; Kaf Hachaim 567:10; Piskeiy Teshuvos 567:1-2
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