Halachah 1 โ Torah Obligation of Kiddush
There is a Biblical mitzvah:
To sanctify Shabbat verbally (โRemember the Sabbath day to sanctify itโ).
This includes:
- Kiddush at the beginning
- Havdalah at the end
Halachah 2โ3 โ Text of Kiddush and Havdalah
The Rambam provides full formulations:
- Kiddush: praises Shabbat, Creation, Exodus, and Godโs choice of Israel
- Havdalah: emphasizes distinctions
- holy vs mundane
- light vs darkness
- Shabbat vs weekdays
Halachah 4 โ Timing
- Main Kiddush โ Friday night
- If missed โ may do it all day
- Havdalah:
- ideally Saturday night
- may be said until Tuesday
Halachah 5 โ Eating Restrictions
Forbidden:
- eating or drinking before Kiddush
- eating, drinking, or working after Shabbat ends before Havdalah
Exception:
- water allowed before Havdalah
Even if one already ate: โ still must say Kiddush/Havdalah afterward
Halachah 6โ7 โ Kiddush Over Wine
Rabbinic requirement:
- Kiddush and Havdalah done over wine
Procedure:
- cup must hold a reviโit
- clean cup
- hold in right hand
- say โborei pri hagefenโ โ then Kiddush
Drink:
- at least a cheekful
Halachah 8 โ Kiddush in Place of Meal
Critical rule:
Kiddush must be where you eat
- Cannot say Kiddush in one house โ eat in another
- Same room is fine
Halachah 9โ10 โ Using Bread Instead of Wine
If no wine:
- Kiddush can be made over bread
BUT:
- Havdalah cannot be on bread
Also:
- if already washed for bread โ Kiddush must follow that
Halachah 10 โ Daytime Kiddush (โGreat Kiddushโ)
Second meal:
- only say borei pri hagefen over wine
Still:
- cannot eat before this Kiddush
Halachah 11 โ Early Kiddush/Havdalah
Permitted:
- Kiddush slightly before nightfall
- Havdalah slightly before end
โ mitzvah includes marking the boundary moments
Halachah 12โ13 โ Meal Interruptions
If Shabbat begins during a meal:
- cover table โ say Kiddush โ continue
If Shabbat ends during meal:
- finish โ bench โ do Havdalah
Important:
- donโt combine two mitzvot on one cup
Halachah 14โ17 โ Proper Wine
Valid:
- good-quality wine
- grape juice
- diluted wine (within limits)
- raisin wine
Invalid:
- bad-smelling wine
- uncovered wine
- cooked wine (according to Rambam)
- wine diluted too much
Also:
- once drunk from โ remainder invalid
Halachah 17 โ Substitutes
- Beer โ invalid for Kiddush
- But โ acceptable for Havdalah in some contexts
Halachah 18โ21 โ Kiddush for Festivals
Same principles:
- Kiddush at beginning
- Havdalah at end
Includes:
- special texts for holidays
- combinations when Shabbat overlaps
Halachah 22 โ When Holiday Follows Shabbat
Order:
- Wine blessing
- Kiddush
- Fire blessing
- Havdalah
- Shehecheyanu
Ends with:
โWho distinguishes between holy and holyโ
Halachah 23 โ Shehecheyanu
Recited:
- at start of festivals
Not:
- on last day of Pesach (continuation of first)
Halachah 24 โ Order of Havdalah
- Wine
- Spices
- Fire
- Havdalah
Halachah 25โ27 โ Fire for Havdalah
- Must benefit visibly from flame
- Cannot use:
- idolatrous fire
- inappropriate sources
Best:
- torch
Special:
- after Yom Kippur โ must use โrested fireโ
Halachah 28 โ Havdalah After Holidays
Differences:
- No spices
- No fire
Halachah 29 โ Reason for Spices
Spices are used because:
The soul is saddened by the departure of Shabbat
โ fragrance restores and comforts it