🔥Daily Tanya – Igeres Hakodesh Epistle 16 Part 1: Tzedakah During Hard Times and the True Meaning of “Your Life Comes First”

Author: Rabbi Yaakov GoldsteinPublished: September 4, 2026

This letter is a direct appeal for continued support of the poor, especially those in Eretz Yisrael. The Alter Rebbe addresses a real concern: many people are themselves struggling financially and therefore feel justified in reducing their charitable giving. His response is both practical and halachic. The Alter

 

This letter is a direct appeal for continued support of the poor, especially those in Eretz Yisrael. The Alter Rebbe addresses a real concern: many people are themselves struggling financially and therefore feel justified in reducing their charitable giving.

His response is both practical and halachic.

 

  1. The Alter Rebbe Recognizes the Economic Hardship

He begins sympathetically:

“It is not hidden from me that times are difficult.”

He knows that:

  • Livelihood has become harder.
  • Many people are financially strained.
  • Some are literally borrowing money to survive.

This is not a theoretical discussion. He fully acknowledges the reality of poverty among his own followers.

 

  1. Yet He Criticizes the Reduction of Tzedakah

Despite these difficulties, he says:

“They are not doing well for their souls.”

Because some people have begun withholding the charitable support that they used to give generously.

The concern is not luxury projects or optional causes.

Rather, he is speaking about:

The essential needs of poor and innocent people who depend on the community.

 

  1. “If We Don’t Have Mercy, Who Will?”

The Alter Rebbe asks:

If we do not have compassion on them, who will?

He cites the verse:

“וחי אחיך עמך“

“Your brother shall live with you.”

The Torah obligates us to be concerned about another Jew’s ability to live.

 

  1. What About “Your Life Comes First”?

Someone might answer with the famous rule:

“חייך קודמין“

“Your life comes first.”

The Alter Rebbe argues that many people are misapplying this principle.

 

  1. The Original Case of “Your Life Comes First”

The rule comes from the case discussed by Chazal:

Two people are in the desert.

There is only enough water for one person to survive.

In that case:

Your own life takes precedence.

Because both people are facing the identical life-or-death situation.

 

  1. But That Is Not the Typical Case

The Alter Rebbe says that this principle does not justify maintaining comforts while another person lacks necessities.

His examples of the poor person’s needs are:

  • Bread
  • Fuel
  • Clothing
  • Basic survival needs

These are genuine necessities.

 

  1. Necessities vs. Comforts

He contrasts these necessities with things such as:

  • Fine clothing
  • Large family meals
  • Meat and fish
  • Delicacies

His point is sharp:

The poor person’s bread and warmth are more urgent than another person’s comforts and luxuries.

 

 

  1. “Your Life Comes First” Does Not Apply Here

Why?

Because:

The wealthy person’s comforts are not equivalent to the poor person’s survival needs.

The Gemara’s rule applies when the needs are truly equal.

Here they are not.

The poor person needs the money for basic life.

The donor is often protecting a higher standard of living.

These are not comparable situations.

 

The Main Message

The Alter Rebbe is not demanding that a person neglect his own legitimate needs.

Rather, he argues that one cannot invoke:

“חייך קודמין“

to justify spending generously on personal comforts while another Jew lacks food, clothing, or other essentials.

 

Key Takeaway

The central point of this letter is that economic hardship does not remove the obligation to care for the poor. The principle of “your life comes first” applies only when both people face the same life-and-death need. It does not justify preferring personal comfort and luxury over another person’s basic necessities. Therefore, even in difficult times, one must keep his hand open to support those who truly depend upon him.

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