Stealing an item as a joke with intent to return

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Stealing as a joke:[1]

It is forbidden to steal even if one plans to return it immediately afterwards.[2] It is forbidden to steal even if one has no intent at all to cause pain to the owner and is stealing the item [temporarily] merely out of jest [and plans to return it immediately afterwards[3]], it is nevertheless forbidden to do so.[4] One who steals [in the above way[5]] transgresses the negative command [against stealing].[6] However, some Poskim[7] rule it is only Rabbinically forbidden to steal with such intent [as a joke[8], with intent to return], and is not a Biblical prohibition.[9]

 

Summary:

It is forbidden to take another’s item without permission even if one plans to return it. This applies even if he is taking it as a joke. According to some Poskim, stealing under such conditions is only Rabbinically forbidden, however the main ruling follows that it is Biblically forbidden due to stealing.

 

Q&A

May one steal the Afikoman on the night of the Seder?
Some[10] communities are accustomed to have the children steal the Afikoman on the night of the Seder and hold it ransom until the father redeems it with a promissory gift of some kind.[11] Other[12] communities however specifically avoid doing so due to resemblance of the stealing prohibition, and so is the Chabad custom to avoid this Minhag.[13]

 

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[1] Admur Gzeila Ugineiva 3; Michaber C.M. 348/1; Rambam Hilchos Gneiva 1/2; Learned from Braisa Bava Metzia 61b “Liminkat” regarding stealing in order to pay Keifel [See Kuntrus Achron ibid 1]

Other opinions: Some Poskim rule it is only forbidden to steal with intent to keep the item, however to steal temporarily is permitted, and so is done on a daily occurrence. [Shita Mekubetzes on Gemara ibid, brought in Pischeiy Teshuvah 348/2 and Ketzos Hachoshen 348/1]

[2] Source for prohibition against stealing even temporarily: Admur Gzeila Ugineiva 3; Michaber 348/1; Beis Yosef 348, brought in Smeh 347/2; Sifri explicitly writes even if one steals to cause pain and intends to return is forbidden; Implication of Rambam in Sefer Hamitzvos L.S. 244, 1st pirush in Shita Mekubetzes on Gemara ibid, [above is all brought in Ketzos Hachoshen 348/1 and Pischeiy Teshuvah 348/2]

Other opinions: Some Poskim rule it is only forbidden to steal with intent to keep the item, however to steal temporarily is permitted, and so is done on a daily occurrence. [second Pirush, and conclusion, in Shita Mekubetzes on Gemara ibid, brought in Pischeiy Teshuvah 348/2 and Ketzos Hachoshen 348/1; See Smeh ibid who seems to learn in Michaber that stealing for pain is to keep the item] Pischeiy Teshuvah 348/2 and Ketzos Hachoshen 348/1 conclude it is proper to be stringent

[3] See Admur and Poskim ibid who establishes the case of stealing for pain to be a case that one plans to return the item, and this next Halacha of stealing for jest is going on that ruling

Other opinions: Some Poskim rule it is only forbidden to steal with intent to keep the item, however to steal temporarily is permitted, and so is done on a daily occurrence. [Shita Mekubetzes on Gemara ibid, brought in Pischeiy Teshuvah 348/2 and Ketzos Hachoshen 348/1]

[4] Admur ibid; Kuntrus Achron ibid 1 in name of Rambam, or based on the ruling of stealing to pay Kefel; Michaber ibid; Rambam Hilchos Gneiva 1/2

[5] The Braisa mentions Kefel and pain to be learned from the verse; Stealing as a joke being Biblical can be derived from this Braisa who prohibits even stealing to benefit owner to pay Keifel, and hence certainly stealing as a joke is forbidden. [See Kuntrus Achron ibid 1] Vetzaruch Iyun, as stealing to pay Kefel perhaps refers to when he plans on keeping the object, and not when stealing temporarily.

[6] Stam opinion in Admur ibid; Implication of Braisa Bava Metzia 61b; Maggid Mishneh Gezeila 1/3 in opinion of Rambam [as explained in Kuntrus Achron ibid 2 that the Maggid Mishneh does not hold its an Asmachta, and the reason the Rambam gives a reason “so one does not come to accustom himself to stealing” does not come to negate its Biblical status, but is just an explanation of why the Torah prohibited it, as explains the Rambam regarding the prohibition of owning faulty weights]

[7] 2nd opinion in Admur ibid; Lechem Mishneh Gneiva 1/1 in opinion of Rambam ibid that the Drasha in Bava Metzia ibid is an Asmachta; Implication of Rambam ibid who writes the reason behind the prohibition is “so one does not become used to doing so”; Implication of Michaber ibid who writes like Rambam ibid

[8] See Lechem Mishneh ibid; See Michaber and Rambam ibid who mention all three in the same Halacha

[9] The reason: The Sages prohibited one from stealing even out of jest lest he make himself accustomed in doing so. [Admur ibid; Michaber ibid; Rambam ibid]

[10] Many Ashkenazi communities

[11] Source: Chok Yaakov 472/2; Aruch Hashulchan 472/2; Mishneh Halachos 11/393; See Pesachim 109a “Chotfim Matzos Beleil Pesachim”, and as explained in Rambam Chameitz Umatzah 7/3, Sefer Hamichtam, Nimukei Yosef 109a it means “They grab/steal Matzos from each other”; Other Rishonim however explain this Gemara differently

The reason: This custom is followed as an incentive to keep the children awake. [Chok Yaakov ibid; Gemara ibid] There is no stealing prohibition involved being it us done as a holy custom, and is as if it is taken with consent of the father. [See Sukkah 45a regarding stealing Esrogim out of Simcha; Rama O.C. 695/2 regarding Purim; C.M.  378/9 regarding damages by Simchas Chasan Vekallah; Asei Leha Rav 6/35]

[12] Tzans; Beis Avi 3/26; Halichos Shlomo 9 footnote 210; Orchos Chaim Spinka 473/19; Most Sefardi communities don’t steal the Afikoman

[13] Hagada Shel Pesach of Rebbe “Afikoman”: “In the Rebbe’s home we are not accustomed to grab the Afikoman, and to mention the Mamar Chazal in Brachos 5b regarding tasting the taste of stealing”

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